I know we have all heard the advice, “find someone who loves you, more than you love them.” But what happens if you end up being that person, that loves more than the other? I’ve been in this situation more times than I can even count. And each time, I never know what to do. Afraid if you confess your love you will lose them, afraid if you pull back you’ll burst. Never knowing when that person will have enough of you and your still stuck in the same feelings and emotions. Always hoping that at some point in time their love will catch up to yours.
Is this anyway to be in a relationship? This is just one of those situations where there is no right or wrong answer. Sometimes you want to hold on to that person and want them in your life so much, you will give just enough to hold on, but know you have so much more to give. Or you may think, if I pull back just a bit maybe my love will diminish and we can be on the same page, and our love will grow together. You’ll never know which will work for you unless you try.
The worst that could happen is you walk away. But then you’ll give yourself the opportunity to find someone who will love you as much as you love them, and if your lucky even more.
Love is not mapped out for us, there are no rules, and there is no right and wrong. It is purely a matter of the heart and what may work for you, may not work for someone else. Don’t listen to what others say you should do, and if your okay loving them more than they love you, then keep loving. That’s what life is all about.
Peace & Love