Every day we are forced to make decisions. Some are harder than others but it is those decisions that move us emotionally that gives us the hardest time to make. Lately, I have been forced to make tough emotional decisions and it’s taking a toll on me. I know I am doing the best that I can but still, making decisions can be tough. Normally, anxiety kicks in, the ‘what ifs’ pop up, you automatically think of the worst, and the list of negatives begin to spruce when you’re forced to make a tough decision. But how do we move forward? How do we ultimately decide which decision to make?
As women, we are born into different shapes, sizes, shades, and ethnicities. We all come from many different backgrounds and have traveled different journeys. Yet, we are always looking at the next woman trying to be more like them. We get extensions because we hate our hair, we botox to look younger, we get implants for bigger bust and bottom, we purchase items way out of wage range just to wear a label, and after all of that we are still unhappy, looking for more. Why is that the case? Why are we unhappy in our own skin? Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and didn’t recognize yourself? Have you ever done something that you know you normally wouldn’t do? Why do we subject ourselves to the stereotypes and misconceptions of what makes a woman a woman? How are we allowing the media to define what makes a phenomenal woman? Have you looked in the mirror lately? Read more
Have you ever dated someone that you couldn’t bring around your friends because he didn’t fit in? Many times people date one another but if they didn’t have that “boy friend/ girl friend” title they wouldn’t be in the same circle. When you are dating someone, should that person also be your friend? I wonder about this answer, because are we actually dating someone we wouldn’t be friends with?
Cliché’ states your lover should be your best friend, but is that always the case? Furthermore if it is not the case, why isn’t it? Hopefully, the person you’re dating is someone you actually like to be around, have fun, talk about anything, and create and share many moments. But do you have the same conversations that you would also have with your friends? Read more